Narcissism and Romantic Relationships

Summary & key facts

This chapter reviews research on narcissism in romantic relationships, with a focus on grandiose narcissism (people who see themselves as very special and superior). Most studies report links between narcissism and relationship problems, such as lower commitment, jealousy, aggression, and sexual coercion. But some studies also find short-term benefits, like being seen as charming or attractive at first contact. The chapter summarizes these mixed findings and suggests directions for more research.

Key facts:

• The chapter focuses on grandiose narcissism, which the authors describe as generally positive and grandiose self‑views.
• Most empirical work reviewed finds that narcissism is linked to relationship‑damaging thoughts and behaviors, including lower commitment, jealousy, and aggression (reported across multiple studies).
• Some studies find positive effects: narcissistic people often appear charming at first meeting and can have greater short‑term sexual or mate appeal in some samples.
• Research cited includes findings that link narcissism to sexually coercive behavior and greater acceptance of violent behavior in some studies (authors cite multiple empirical papers).
• The chapter is a literature review. It summarizes past studies and ends by offering suggestions for future topical and methodological research, rather than reporting new experimental data.

Topics

Evolutionary Psychology and Human Behavior Personality Disorders and Psychopathology Personality Traits and Psychology

Categories

Clinical Psychology Psychology Social Sciences

Tags

Art Jealousy Literature Mythology Narcissism Neuroscience Perception Psychoanalysis Psychology Romance Social psychology